What does it mean when your husband comments and likes other women on social media? He has private IG and TikTok accounts that I have no access to. He has saved videos and pictures of women on his phone.

My husband has porn saved on his iPhone videos. Truthfully I could care less. And one time I went in his briefcase n pulled out a magazine with naked women in it. I was very hurt at first. I confronted him n asked him why do you have this? Are you not sexually attracted to me anymore? I do my best to keep myself in good shape n at my age , I can still turn heads , so I can’t be that unattractive. I spoke with some male friends of mine n my gfs. They all told me the same thing . Your man viewing porn or Playboy etc, is something all of their husband n bfs do. They explained to me it’s nothing personal it’s just that, n I’m sorry guys but men in general are pigs lol. Listening to them and what they had to say n asking me if he always after me for sex lol n always touching me , even ins public lol bc he says he feels like it lol made me realize I have nothing to worry about, not all men but many men married or not so these things n it means nothing. These women aren’t women they know that would be different and. if he acted as if he no longer found Me attractive he wouldn’t take every opportunity to touch me or want to have sex with me all the time. Talk with your man, talk with your gfs n male friends n I believe they would tell you the same. I hope that

helps n makes you feel confident in yourself as a beautiful woman inside and out. i totally understand how that makes you feel. Did you confront him? Cyber and emotional cheating can be just as bad if not worse than physically cheating. Tell him this hurts you n ask him why. You need to confront him first. There no subject off limits for you n your partner to speak truthfully about. I agree those online accounts speaking with different women on, is quite different. Tell him that hurts you n to take it down n stop it at once. It is inappropriate, disrespectful n rude to you n makes you feel the way you do. If he respects you and doesn’t want to hurt you he will shut these accounts down n if he insists on keeping them tell him to log on In that moment n show you the conversations h s having. Then you will know how to proceed from there. Words mean nothing , look at actions n see is what he tells aligns with his actions n also why not give you the passwords to these accounts. Otherwise tell him you are also going to start chatting online with different people men n women , what’s good for the goos…well you know the rest n take it from there. If you catch him flat out cheating n having sexual chats with other women then I wouldn’t trust him n demand answers that make sense. If not do not accept disrespect from anyone , then tell him he can have his til too shit all day long n when he wants sex tell him to make love to the computer , but not while he’s with you , if so, since he’s chosen that over you if he keeps his passwords secret n doesn’t get off those sites, in my case I would tell him take these childish accounts n inappropriate behavior n find a new gf n place to live or i would stick that computer so far up his ass , he will never use it again lol. Ok without the violence tho, lol, that’s the kind of thing only I would do. The fact that he told you when he didn’t have to tell you about his TikTok n instagram account which btw contains many pics of half naked women, that tells me I don’t think he’s trying to hurt or do you wrong , perhaps he just wants more of your time n affection to focus on the relationship more. Do not jump yo conclusions tho hear him out n see how you feel then. It’s always best to go straight to the source when you believe he may be up to no good, but I think it’s more on the line of him just being a man and as my gf referred to them , pigs 🐖 are lol. Let me know how it goes if you wish but don’t assume he’s cheating unless you have the facts. Good luck 🍀 honey,I have a feeling he’s not intentionally trying to hurt you.